KoL doesn't have anything in the quest log between finishing the dance and starting the baby quest. I think that may be a new KoL 'feature' where it doesn't list anything.
That's why now, when you finish the dance quest using BCA, it starts the baby quest, which makes the quest log show things for her again.
Any characters that had previously finished the dance quest won't be auto-unlocking the babies, because that stage is already done. To 'fix' the BCA detection there, just make sure that KoL once again knows about the lady... go talk to her on the third floor, then run refresh quests. Or manually set bcasc_stage_manorbedroom, manorballroom, manorgallery, and manorbathroom to your current ascension.
If someone has a copy of bcsrelay_settings with the descriptions, we can replace that into the SVN. The BCA version is just int and string, which is what we've got currently. But if someone's got the full one around... Yes, the current version on BCA would have wiped your bcsrelay_settings data file, but if you have previous versions up (Dropbox, VSC, whatever) then we should be able to get that back.
Welcome. I actually like the reports and comments, because otherwise I just make the changes and don't get any input until people complain about things.
If people give me input, it gives me motivation to do stuff that doesn't necessarily tick my "must-fix-for-me-right-now" box. Heh. Though I still do need to either be able to test it myself or have someone who is giving feedback regularly, so I don't end up breaking things worse.
I'll probably try to get on fixing the twin peak quest tracking soon. One major change at a time, but think we're almost done with the manor second floor.